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33-year-old man, Nkemakonam Nwoke is in trouble because he molested female
minors . Nwoke who lived at 7, Chief Nwatu Street Emene, Enugu is said to have
defiled eight female kids of ages ranging between 3 and 6 years at his
neighborhood.
Nkem’s molestation of the eight minors
was unnoticed until one of the girls who could no longer cope reported to her
mother that the man was doing ‘bad-bad’ things with them. With further probing
, the said parent was able to get the truth from her daughter who confessed
that the man was molesting eight of them one after the other. Consequently,
parents of the victims contacted Mediating for the Less Privileged and Women
Development and the man was arrested.
was unnoticed until one of the girls who could no longer cope reported to her
mother that the man was doing ‘bad-bad’ things with them. With further probing
, the said parent was able to get the truth from her daughter who confessed
that the man was molesting eight of them one after the other. Consequently,
parents of the victims contacted Mediating for the Less Privileged and Women
Development and the man was arrested.
Narrating the story to our reporter in
Enugu, Dr. (Mrs.) Betty Agujiobi who runs the NGO recalled how she got involved
in the matter. Said she: “I received a distress call from Emene, so I rushed
there and it was a case of a 33 year-old man defiling minors in his area. One
of the children was no longer comfortable with his lewd tendencies and she had
to report to her mother and that was how the community knew.
The man had been defiling the children
for over one year .” “When I got there I had to interview the man and he
admitted doing it . Asked why he molested the children he said he didn’t know,
that he takes delight in having sexual relationship with children. He said he’s
shy and can’t talk to mature girls. “I probed further to find out if probably
he used his fingers or his manhood and he told me he didn’t use his fingers but
his manhood. The oldest amongst his victims appeared to be very shy to say what
the young man had been doing with them.
for over one year .” “When I got there I had to interview the man and he
admitted doing it . Asked why he molested the children he said he didn’t know,
that he takes delight in having sexual relationship with children. He said he’s
shy and can’t talk to mature girls. “I probed further to find out if probably
he used his fingers or his manhood and he told me he didn’t use his fingers but
his manhood. The oldest amongst his victims appeared to be very shy to say what
the young man had been doing with them.
Others told me what happened and they
spoke in Igbo saying Nkem na eme anyi ihe aruruala (Nkem does bad-bad things to
us). I asked further to find out the type of bad things he was doing to them
and they explained what he had been doing with them and I had no option than to
contact the police. The police came and arrested the man and he also told them
the truth. He said he would not deny it and that probably God wanted to expose
him .”
spoke in Igbo saying Nkem na eme anyi ihe aruruala (Nkem does bad-bad things to
us). I asked further to find out the type of bad things he was doing to them
and they explained what he had been doing with them and I had no option than to
contact the police. The police came and arrested the man and he also told them
the truth. He said he would not deny it and that probably God wanted to expose
him .”
Agujiobi said further “But the man
called me and said there was one thing he wanted to find out. He said he wanted
to know how long he would spend in prison if he’s convicted . I told him it
would be about 7 to 14 years and he said if the jail term is multiplied by the
number of children it will be too severe that he would prefer if it would run
concurrently. I said okay, that we would see what we can do but that he has to
maintain his story.” The risk of HIV/AIDS Agujiobi said further “After they
were tested for HIV/AIDS and the results were negative I asked their parents to
take them for tests for other sexually transmitted infections and they went.
called me and said there was one thing he wanted to find out. He said he wanted
to know how long he would spend in prison if he’s convicted . I told him it
would be about 7 to 14 years and he said if the jail term is multiplied by the
number of children it will be too severe that he would prefer if it would run
concurrently. I said okay, that we would see what we can do but that he has to
maintain his story.” The risk of HIV/AIDS Agujiobi said further “After they
were tested for HIV/AIDS and the results were negative I asked their parents to
take them for tests for other sexually transmitted infections and they went.
They all tested positive and were
placed on drugs. Before then, one of the parents told me that her
three-year-old girl was experiencing vaginal discharge which was abnormal and
that she never knew why until this thing came to light.” “All eight children
live in a cluster settlement in the same vicinity at a low income settlement at
Emene where anyone who owned a television is seen as a lord. This young man
entices these children with his television which he tunes to the cartoon
network. Parents didn’t know why these children ran to him anytime he was around
.” “Whenever he wanted to molest them he would send some to go and buy biscuits
and probably tell them the place to go which was normally a distance from his
home.
placed on drugs. Before then, one of the parents told me that her
three-year-old girl was experiencing vaginal discharge which was abnormal and
that she never knew why until this thing came to light.” “All eight children
live in a cluster settlement in the same vicinity at a low income settlement at
Emene where anyone who owned a television is seen as a lord. This young man
entices these children with his television which he tunes to the cartoon
network. Parents didn’t know why these children ran to him anytime he was around
.” “Whenever he wanted to molest them he would send some to go and buy biscuits
and probably tell them the place to go which was normally a distance from his
home.
They complied and he molested them one
after the other . He told me that he would spray his towel and lay the children
on the towel and do whatever he wanted to do with them.” “I wanted to know the
background of the young man who looked very healthy and bulky and I was told
how he came to live with a woman with his mother. He used to go around with his
mother washing plates for the woman who was an hotelier and who would also give
them food.” “After a while, when he was of age the hotelier asked the mother to
let him stay with her and that was how he came to live with her.
after the other . He told me that he would spray his towel and lay the children
on the towel and do whatever he wanted to do with them.” “I wanted to know the
background of the young man who looked very healthy and bulky and I was told
how he came to live with a woman with his mother. He used to go around with his
mother washing plates for the woman who was an hotelier and who would also give
them food.” “After a while, when he was of age the hotelier asked the mother to
let him stay with her and that was how he came to live with her.
The hotelier expressed shock that they
lived under the same roof and she never knew something like this was going on.
When the man told me “…this is not the first time”, the woman was like, “shut
up, are you mad? Why should you have to tell her that this is not your first time;
do you want to die?” He said “no I want to stop it; if this is the way God
wants me to stop it, I will be happy.” They asked him how he felt now and he
said he’s ashamed and that he wished he would just die to avoid the shame. A
sense of guilt has overcome him and he never raised his face but was always
bowing to hide his face. He said “I am so ashamed; if the parents of these
children killed me I won’t blame them because I really offended them.” “Poverty
you know is a problem and initially parents of the victims thought my
organization’s intervention would be like every other intervention.
lived under the same roof and she never knew something like this was going on.
When the man told me “…this is not the first time”, the woman was like, “shut
up, are you mad? Why should you have to tell her that this is not your first time;
do you want to die?” He said “no I want to stop it; if this is the way God
wants me to stop it, I will be happy.” They asked him how he felt now and he
said he’s ashamed and that he wished he would just die to avoid the shame. A
sense of guilt has overcome him and he never raised his face but was always
bowing to hide his face. He said “I am so ashamed; if the parents of these
children killed me I won’t blame them because I really offended them.” “Poverty
you know is a problem and initially parents of the victims thought my
organization’s intervention would be like every other intervention.
They never knew we meant business. At a
point they delegated two of the parents to meet me and they came to my house
and said they were happy with me for my commitment but that they wanted to
withdraw from the case. I asked them why and they said the man would settle
them and that he has agreed to settle each of them so that they would withdraw
the case. The two parents said they would gain nothing from going to court or
sending the man to jail and that the best thing was to settle out of court. I
told them this is a case of defilement and that this man had said that he
didn’t start with your children, but had been doing it with other children.
point they delegated two of the parents to meet me and they came to my house
and said they were happy with me for my commitment but that they wanted to
withdraw from the case. I asked them why and they said the man would settle
them and that he has agreed to settle each of them so that they would withdraw
the case. The two parents said they would gain nothing from going to court or
sending the man to jail and that the best thing was to settle out of court. I
told them this is a case of defilement and that this man had said that he
didn’t start with your children, but had been doing it with other children.
If you withdraw this case who knows who
would be the next victim?. I said as far as I am concerned if they collect
anything from the man I will sue them for trading with their children. There
and then I called a lawyer. I told him I had a case and this is what the
parents were trying to do. I asked him to prepare a case against the parents so
we could go to court and he said okay that I should come. Nkem shouted and
asked if that was how I behaved. I said yes, that I will even go beyond that
and he promised to go back to the others assuring that they play along.
would be the next victim?. I said as far as I am concerned if they collect
anything from the man I will sue them for trading with their children. There
and then I called a lawyer. I told him I had a case and this is what the
parents were trying to do. I asked him to prepare a case against the parents so
we could go to court and he said okay that I should come. Nkem shouted and
asked if that was how I behaved. I said yes, that I will even go beyond that
and he promised to go back to the others assuring that they play along.
I asked him if he realized the kind of
infection those children must have contracted . It wasn’t as though my NGO was
doing it alone. I contacted the vice president of FIDA Enugu State, and also
Child Protection Network and got all of them involved. I called the Director,
Citizens Rights and told her about the case and she offered some advice.”
Agujiobi revealed that three of the victims are from the same parents.
infection those children must have contracted . It wasn’t as though my NGO was
doing it alone. I contacted the vice president of FIDA Enugu State, and also
Child Protection Network and got all of them involved. I called the Director,
Citizens Rights and told her about the case and she offered some advice.”
Agujiobi revealed that three of the victims are from the same parents.
The suspect who was arraigned at an
Enugu East Chief Magistrate Court was remanded in prison custody and the file
transferred to the Director of Public Prosecution. Agujiobi told our reporter
that her NGO is still expecting the case to come up. “We have not been invited
but I still go to see the children and I interact with their parents, she
added.
Enugu East Chief Magistrate Court was remanded in prison custody and the file
transferred to the Director of Public Prosecution. Agujiobi told our reporter
that her NGO is still expecting the case to come up. “We have not been invited
but I still go to see the children and I interact with their parents, she
added.
